{"id":222,"date":"2026-09-07T11:46:22","date_gmt":"2026-09-07T16:46:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-that-failed-twice\/"},"modified":"2026-09-28T22:37:52","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T03:37:52","slug":"expired-listing-that-failed-twice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-that-failed-twice\/","title":{"rendered":"The Expired Listing That Failed Twice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The record on the screen is longer than most. Alder Street, four bedrooms, first listed in June of last year with one brokerage at 589, reduced twice, expired in December. Relisted in January with a second brokerage at 549, reduced once, expired last week at 529. Fourteen months. Two signs. Two sets of photographs. The second set is noticeably better. And a seller who, when the phone connects, says the sentence before you have finished your name: &#8220;If this is about the house, I&#8217;ve heard it all, and I&#8217;m not interested in hearing it again.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That sentence has been said to forty agents in the last eight days, and most of them tried to get past it by explaining how they were different from the two that came before. Every one of those calls ended inside twenty seconds, because the seller has already heard two agents explain how they were different, and both of them were the two who failed.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"what-two-expirations-mean\">What two expirations mean<\/h2>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-history\/\">history piece<\/a> says to read the record before the dial and to hold the theory. On a twice-expired listing the reading is richer and the theory is harder to hold, because there are two stories on the screen and they may not be the same story.<\/p>\n<p>Two failures at descending prices with the same shape, a listing that sat, a cut, more sitting, is usually one failure twice: the price was wrong at 589 and it was still wrong at 549, and the second agent inherited a seller who had already decided that price was not the problem because the first agent had said it was. Two failures with different shapes, a badly marketed first listing with eight photographs and a well marketed second one that still did not sell, is a different reading, because it removes marketing as the explanation and leaves price standing alone, which the seller may now be ready to hear from someone who did not say it first.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, the seller has spent fourteen months being told what was wrong by people who then failed to fix it, and their opening sentence is not hostility toward you. It is exhaustion. It is also a test.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"why-the-third-agent-s-pitch-fails-before-it-starts\">Why the third agent&#8217;s pitch fails before it starts<\/h2>\n<p>Article 15 of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nar.realtor\/about-nar\/governing-documents\/code-of-ethics\/2026-code-of-ethics-standards-of-practice\">Code of Ethics<\/a> bars false or misleading statements about other real estate professionals, and on this call it does more than keep you honest. It keeps you from making the mistake the forty other agents made. &#8220;The other agents didn&#8217;t market it properly&#8221; is a guess dressed as a fact, and the seller, who sat through two listing presentations and watched two campaigns, knows more about what those agents did than you do. The moment you criticize them, you have joined a category the seller has learned to distrust, which is agents who explain other agents&#8217; failures, and you have also, without meaning to, told the seller that the failure was not theirs, which is the belief that produced the second expiration.<\/p>\n<p>So there is no differentiation on this call. Nothing about your marketing, your team, your track record. The seller does not want a third presentation. They want someone to ask them a question nobody has asked, and then be quiet.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"the-two-questions\">The two questions<\/h2>\n<p>The first is the <a href=\"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-script\/\">expired script&#8217;s<\/a> diagnosis question, adapted to a seller who has two answers to give.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to tell you what went wrong, because I wasn&#8217;t there and you were. Can I ask you what you think happened, the first time and the second time? And whether it was the same thing.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Then silence. Hold it. The last clause is the one that matters, because it invites the seller to compare the two failures, which most have not done out loud, and the comparison is where the truth surfaces. A seller who says &#8220;the first one didn&#8217;t do anything and the second one did everything and it still sat&#8221; has just told you it was price, in their own words, without you saying it. A seller who says &#8220;both of them told me to drop the price and I did and it didn&#8217;t help&#8221; has told you they cut too little, too late, twice, and that they still believe the cuts were the agents&#8217; idea rather than the market&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>The second question comes after the first has been fully answered, and it is not about listing.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>If you were going to try a third time, and I&#8217;m not asking you to, what would have to be different for it to be worth it to you?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That question puts the seller in charge of the conditions, which after fourteen months of being told what to do is the first time anyone has. The answers sort the call. &#8220;Nothing, we&#8217;re done&#8221; is a real answer and the record closes with respect. &#8220;It would have to sell in sixty days&#8221; is a seller naming a timeline, which is the beginning of a price conversation. &#8220;I&#8217;d want to know the number was right before we started&#8221; is a seller who has arrived at the diagnosis and is asking for permission to say it.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"the-price-conversation-fourteen-months-in\">The price conversation, fourteen months in<\/h2>\n<p>When the second question opens it, the price conversation on a twice-expired listing is different from the one on a fresh expired, because the seller has data of their own. Fourteen months of carrying costs. Three reductions totaling sixty thousand dollars that each arrived after the market had already moved past the new number. A house that is now worth, by the street&#8217;s recent sales, something the seller has not let themselves calculate.<\/p>\n<p>Do it in their numbers, the way the <a href=\"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-objections\/\">objections piece<\/a> does everything. What did they expect to net at 589. What have they paid to carry the house since June of last year. What would they net at the number the street actually supports now. How does that compare to what they would have netted at a correct price on day one. The math usually shows that the seller has already paid, in carrying costs and in the market&#8217;s movement, more than the gap between their price and the right one. That is a conclusion the seller can reach without being told, if the agent lays the numbers out and stops talking. It lands harder from their own mouth than from yours, and on this seller it is the only way it lands at all.<\/p>\n<p>Do not name the right price on this call. Name the method. That is all. The number is for the appointment, with the comparables in front of them, and it should be the first thing on the table there rather than the last, because a seller who has expired twice cannot survive a third listing that starts high and works down.<\/p>\n<div class=\"table-scroll\">\n<table>\n<thead>\n<tr>\n<th>The seller says<\/th>\n<th>What it usually means<\/th>\n<th>Your line<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;I&#8217;ve heard it all.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>Forty agents differentiated themselves this week<\/td>\n<td>&#8220;I believe you. I&#8217;m not going to add to it. Can I ask you one thing instead?&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;The first agent did nothing.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>The second listing removed marketing as the excuse<\/td>\n<td>&#8220;And the second one?&#8221; Then silence<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;They both said drop the price and it didn&#8217;t work.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>Cuts too small and too late, believed to be the agents&#8217; fault<\/td>\n<td>&#8220;How far behind the market were you each time you cut? Do you know?&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;We&#8217;re going to try it ourselves.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>Exhaustion, and a plan that the FSBO pieces cover<\/td>\n<td>Wish them well; ask what their date is; the sixty-day plan applies<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;It would have to sell fast.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>A timeline, which is a price<\/td>\n<td>&#8220;Then the number has to be right on day one. Can I show you what right looks like, in your figures?&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>&#8220;We&#8217;re done. We&#8217;ll stay.&#8221;<\/td>\n<td>A real decision<\/td>\n<td>&#8220;Understood. If the street changes, may I let you know?&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<h2 id=\"what-a-third-listing-has-to-look-like\">What a third listing has to look like<\/h2>\n<p>If the appointment happens, the third listing agreement cannot be the first two with a new name on it. It starts at the price the comparables support, not near it. It is shorter than the standard term if the brokerage allows that, because a seller who has been locked in twice for six months will not sign for a third, and a shorter term with a plan to extend is a term they can say yes to. It has a written schedule of what happens in the first fourteen days, so the seller is not waiting to see whether this agent does anything. And it has one sentence in the conversation that the first two agents probably never said: if it does not sell at this price in this window, here is what we will conclude and what we will do, agreed now.<\/p>\n<p>None of that is a pitch. It is a plan. It is the answer to the second question, built from what the seller said would have to be different.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"the-status-check-and-the-record\">The status check and the record<\/h2>\n<p>Before the call, and before the appointment, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nar.realtor\/about-nar\/governing-documents\/code-of-ethics\/2026-code-of-ethics-standards-of-practice\">Article 16<\/a> status check matters more on this record than on any other, because a seller who has relisted twice may have relisted a third time in the week since the second expiration. If they have, the record goes on the watch list. The call does not happen.<\/p>\n<p>If they have not, and the call ends with their words and a date, the record holds both stories, the two answers to the first question, and whatever they said would have to be different. The third call, if there is one, opens with that sentence, per the <a href=\"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/real-estate-follow-up-call-script\/\">follow-up script<\/a>. The <a href=\"https:\/\/realdialer.com\/expired-listing-prospecting\/\">expired hub<\/a> frames every expired conversation around what the seller thinks happened. The twice-expired seller has thought about it more than anyone, and has almost never been asked.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The history shows two listing periods, two brokerages and three reductions, and the seller picks up with a sentence they have said to forty agents. What two expirations mean, why the third agent&#8217;s pitch fails before it starts, the two questions that work, the price conversation the seller has been avoiding for a year, and what a third listing has to look like.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":221,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_realdialer_meta_description":"The history shows two listing periods, two brokerages and three reductions, and the seller picks up with a sentence they have said to forty agents. 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